got no sleep last night at all...but at least I have a plan here
first of all I called the breeder of the pugs last night. I Know her fairly well and talked about this lady and also about Max. she said when Max was returned the lady claimed she had to move because of her ex and they did not allow dogs so therefore she could not keep Max. she dropped him off ..and left.
the breeder told the lady that Max was rehomed to a lady in Kincardine. she gave my phone number..part of the agreement when the dog was dropped off was she would know where he went.
I agreed to foster max and ended up keeping him. well then the vet seen Max.. I had to take him in, I had a hard time getting near him, he just cringed at the sight of anyone. he shook all the time, would not come out of his crate and had nightmares. the vet checked him out and said he did not have any aggression issues but he was abused and very very scared.
at this point the lady admitted that her ex husband beating him all the time and her too. she also had false medical records of Max vaccines drawn up..I had to revaccinate him for all his puppy shots.
I worked like ...... with that pug for a year and half. everyday socializing and playing and loving him.
I am refusing all contact with this lady
she called the breeder and left this urgency that she needed to see Max too..she is doing the same thing..no contact
I see a lawyer on Friday for other things..will ask him what he thinks about all this
so the latest is she is calling the breeder too looking for Max. she called me wanting to see Max. this is pretty weird if you ask me and scary too. she knows the town that I live in, but not my address.
I will NOT let any of the dogs go out on their own..even in the fenced yard. I have no idea what this lady looks like so I guess trust nobody for now that approaches Max..air on the side of caution. the breeder feels his lady feels very quilty and she said very distraught and unstable.
thanks for the support
I am worried about all of my dogs..not just Max..
she lives approx an hour from me for travelling.
called the police and they said they can do nothing unless she approaches the house..then they could charge her with tresspassing. harrassment is very hard to prove they said and it needs to carry on for a long time before it comes down to a charge and there has to be a threat involved.
sure has been stressful to say the least
got a bit better sleep last night..
all the dogs are staying very close to me
sleeping with 5 dogs is pretty crowded..lol
but I am warm and they are safer that way
not sure what i would do without my dogs
feel for this lady but Max is in a better place here
and her loss..my gain
thanks for the support
I am soooooo glad that I have a couple of Bullies right now ...
the bulldogs are soo intune it is unreal.
follow me all over the place yesterday and today
cuddling with me on the couch
poor Gus has no idea what is happening..or Bella for that matter too
they sure are smart breeds of dogs..
the lady is NOT allowed to see Max.
I think any contact of any kind..even to say NO is contact
in this case it just has to stop...all contact
maybe she will get the idea
with her being so close to me..she could likely show up though. so will be very cautious around the dogs for sure and NOT OUT OF MY SIGHT...even to pee. I have been putting out only one or two at a time and going out each time too.
wish this never happened..
but glad i got my bullies and pugs to cuddle..
thanks Deb..it is really sucks big time...
I hope i can catch a few winks tonight at least.
was out playing with the dogs outside and got some fresh air so maybe that might help.
spent the day with the dogs the whole day and did not much of anything else..
this is mentally draining..
and nerve wrecking too
why the heck she called the breeder and insisted on seeing Max is beyond me..
she can definetly use the internet..I know that for sure..
I am just going to have to keep a really close watch on all the furkids here..everyone of them.
and for now they can all sleep with me for now too. 5 of them..lol. but I will be more comfortable with them being safe with me I am sure. normally 2 of the pugs sleep in another room.
pretty stresful and really I am the person that helped Max. why can she not be happy that he has a good home and drop it. a year and half later..to worry about him makes no sense.
Hopefully this person is not smart enough to use the
internet. There are places you can find addresses, ph numbers, birth dates, pictures of residence and if you pay you can get more info. Two places to check to see your info is www.zabasearch.com and www.spokeo.com
pat
I am sorry you are going throught this, when you give a dog back for any reason you also give away your rights, get this ladys number and tell her no way can you see Max.
sorry you are going through this Pat
that is awlful...hopefully she will not try anything...Max is so lucky to have you...
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