Hello Everyone! Some of you may remember my posting last week seeking information as to how a new 2-year old male bulldog (we'll call him "Mugsy") would get along with a 1-year old female pug (we'll call her "Coco"). First off, thank you to all who responded. Well, Mugsy is now at our home for a week-long trip so that we can see how it works and decide if we would like to keep him or not. So, here is the update on how the weekend went.
Mugsy was, in general, very good. He follows me around everywhere, and is really lovable. He has not caused any problems with our house, and only had one accident. Coco is still leary of him. At first she would not even go around him. Now she seems to realize that Mugsy is not going to hurt her, and is comfortable walking around the house and block with him. The trouble Adminses when they want to play. Mugsy has been taking Coco's toys to play with...which Coco does not enjoy. She tries to get them from him, but when she comes close, he lunges at her and sometimes lets out a growl. I know he is just trying to play, but this action scares Coco and she goes and hides underneath the table and watches Mugsy chew her toy. Will Mugsy ever learn to play nice with a much smaller dog? What can I do to help them? Should I let Mugsy play with Coco's toys? (I did buy Mugsy a toy, and he likes it.. but will get interested in the toy Coco is playing with) Any advice you can give me would be greatly appreciated!!
James
Thanks James
First, for Coco's safety, I wouldn't leave any toys available unless someone is there to supervise playtime. Don't allow Mugsy to take toys away, when he does, calmly say something like "too bad", give the toy back to Coco and give Mugsy a different toy.
Mugsy is "guarding" the stolen toy. He is taking it and leaving. When Coco is trying to retreive it, you said Mugsy is lunging and growling. This isn't play behavior and I would guess if Coco pressed the issue, it would result in a physical confrontation.
I am sure Coco is a little overwhelmed by Mugsy. He is bigger and sounds like he is not a bit shy. Don't let Mugsy "paw" at her, it is probably scaring her. Gently take his collar, say "off" and move him away from her.
Work on skills like sit, relax, tricks etc. with the two of them. Be very watchful of body language to make sure there is no friction over the treats.
It will take time for Mugsy to learn boundries and limits in his new enviroment. It is your job to show him, be patient and consistent.
I am not an advocate of letting dogs "work it out". As the leader of my pack, it is my responsibility to ensure their emotional and physical well being.
Good luck
Lynn K
Playing together
When Mugsy and Coco are not playing with toys...Mugsy normally lays on my feet, and Coco normally sits in my lap. Otherwise, if I am doing something, they both normally follow me around, but do not have all that much interaction with each other. Of course they sniff each other and what not, but it does not go much farther than that. Mugsy seems only mildly interested in playing with Coco.. Coco seems like she wants to play with Mugsy, but when she tries to bait him on, he lunges at her and she gets scared. Mugsy is used to playing with another grown Bulldog, so I think he just does not realize his size relative to Coco. When I grab a stuffed animal, they both come running to play. However, Mugsy will grab the toy and play tug of war with me, and Coco is left out. She is afraid to try to jump in the middle of it. If Coco grabs a bone to chew on, Mugsy will go take it from her and chew it himself somewhere else. It is odd because Coco loves to play with my sister's dog (an American Eskimo) and she will jump all over him. She will even go and grab a toy right out of his mouth. Maybe it is because she has known him all her life, but I really hope that she and Mugsy can learn to play together. I really want to keep Mugsy, but I know my wife will not do it unless she feels that Coco is safe. I wish they would become like brother and sister! Thank you for your response, I hope this helps you help me!
Mugsy and Coco
James,
When there are no toys around, do they interact with each other, playing, sleeping together etc.? When Mugsy takes a toy from Coco does he try to play with her or does he walk away to be by himself? What does he do when you approach him when he has a toy. Does he try to get you to play?
Sorry for all the questions, let me know please
Lynn K
I sit on the floor and start playing with 1 with a pull toy(sock
Offer it to the other pup. When she takes it I bak out of the picture and the fun begins.
another thought sit on the floor and play with them
both at the same time..with all the toys and offer treats your pug should get a treat first..
also stay very calm soft spoken.....if no one is getting hurt ignore the growls and your pugs reaction..just act like it's really fun and only good things happen when they are together....ce
Playing Together
When Mugsy growls at Coco.. Coco leaves and keeps her distance for a while. I don't want Coco to be scared in her own home. Also sometimes Mugsy "paws" at Coco, which essentially knocks her over.. how should I get Mugsy to take it easier on her? Coco just gives me this look like, "what is going on here?" Is there anything I can do to ease the adjustment? I really want to keep Mugsy permantly, but I know my wife will not go for it unless she knows that Coco (her baby) will be ok.
I don't know if they understand
my toys your toys I think they just see toys My bullie growls when they play with our boston or each other they just play growl. I think that once they get use to each other it will be fine. Just don't forget the Pug and give her some extra attention.